Many men come across on the path of life, some are sympathetic, someone is indifferent. Recognizing love for one man when you like several is not easy. We'll have to choose one single male from the sea, who will be a worthy accompaniment in life.
Instructions
Step 1
You need to decide and understand your attitude towards a man. First of all, you should think about why this question arose, where did the uncertainty in your feelings come from. Perhaps it is a fear of making a mistake. The candy-bouquet stage of the relationship has already begun, everything seems to be good, mutual sympathy, courtship, telephone conversations for 10 hours a day, constant SMS with gentle words. But there is some kind of anxiety, maybe another young man is subconsciously sympathetic, who achieves location. I do not want to lose the first and give up the second. Whatever decision is made, after a while it will still raise doubts. The thought arises that it would be better if the choice fell on another man.
Step 2
Love is always something tender, warm and affectionate, but not permanent. Think about whether you feel good with the person who is next to you, whether you agree to put up with all his shortcomings, whether he wants to put up with your shortcomings. Do you feel that the relationship will be long-term, do you constantly quarrel, are you happy together, do you feel cared for? Is there any pity for him for any reason? Imagine that this man suddenly disappeared from your life, he just left, disappeared. If you immediately rejected this thought with a shudder, it means that this is love and your life without this person is of no value to you.
Step 3
Sometimes you have to live with a person for several years before you start asking yourself such questions. This happens when a relationship just develops into a habit and in such cases only time will help to understand yourself. And it is better for this time to go somewhere farther, for example, to your parents or to a sanatorium.
