If you have moved to another city, then involuntarily the question arises of how to find friends. Someone, disillusioned with former comrades, will think, why are friends needed? But we, people, live in a society, and we need communication. How to make new acquaintances and find real friends?
Instructions
Step 1
If a stranger approached you and took the initiative to communicate with you, you should not close. If this person does not make you suspicious, talk to him, answer questions. You shouldn't open up too much in front of strangers, but looking like a beech is also not in your favor.
Step 2
If you are a student studying in another city, then do not try to sit down on the last desk in splendid isolation. Approach someone, ask if the seat is occupied.
Step 3
Don't be shy or afraid. If you don't love yourself, how can others love you? There is nothing wrong with making an acquaintance. Be confident, keep your back straight.
Step 4
If you are invited to a party in a cafe to celebrate a successfully passed session or the promotion of one of your new colleagues at work, do not refuse. You will not lose anything, but you will have the opportunity to get to know new people better in a relaxed atmosphere.
Step 5
If you start a conversation with your interlocutor, talk about the topics that interest him. Learn to listen and don't interrupt.
Step 6
Show a genuine interest in your new friend's hobbies. Ask him about his hobby. If a person is addicted to something, he likes to talk about it. And if there is a person with whom it is not only pleasant to talk, but also pleasant to tell something, he automatically becomes a friend candidate.
Step 7
Usually the conversation starts with banal phrases. How are you, how is the weather. People answer in monosyllables, and your task is to talk to a person and get to know him better. They told you that it was terribly hot - offer to go somewhere to drink mineral water. Hang on to the interlocutor's word so that the conversation does not end in a banal "normal".
Step 8
A very good psychological technique that will help you find a common language is to be on the same wavelength with a person. Repeat all the movements of the interlocutor.
