Friendship is a whole art. Friends are those people to whom we turn for help, advice, help, if they have problems, we spend our free time with them. Conversation is an important part of a friendship. Share the news, discuss the movie you saw, make an appointment, and finally just gossip. The art of conversation is just as important as the art of friendship. How should you talk to your friends?
It is necessary
- Friends;
- Reasons for meetings;
- Topics for conversation;
- Meeting places;
- Telephone;
- A computer.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, learn to listen. If one of your friends shares with you innermost thoughts, personal experiences, problems, be sure to listen carefully. Your friend trusts you, expects support, sympathy, perhaps advice. Show attention. Even if you cannot influence a difficult situation in the life of one of your friends, talk about it, think together how you can solve the problem or survive the trouble, just tell me what you think about it - it will already be very good … Do not give advice if you are not sure about it. When friends tell something, look them in the eyes, react, not limit yourself to superficial "Aha!", Ask a couple of clarifying questions.
Step 2
If your friends overuse your listening skills and start pestering you with endless stories of nonsense, feel free to interrupt them, just politely. The wording “Long stories - long boredom is perfect. You'd better tell me this … "or just" Sorry, but I'm not very interested in this. Let's better talk about …”Friends will not take offense at you, and you can avoid a boring conversation.
Step 3
Don't forget to share the news of your life with your friends. No need to intrude, but if a close friend asks "How are you?" the answer “Yes, everything is fine” is not enough. Tell us briefly what is new with you or retell a funny anecdote you heard the other day, tell some curious story that recently happened to you. Do not answer the questions of caring friends "It's none of your business", be open and friendly.
