Sometimes, conflicts at work or in the family make people bitter enemies. They intrigue each other even when the object of the quarrel, the "stumbling block", has long been forgotten.
Instructions
Step 1
Enmity with someone around you greatly complicates life. Constant nervous tension and stress very often cause various diseases. Moreover, both rather harmless types of gastritis and seborrhea, and severe ones - heart attack and stroke. In order not to come to this, you need to resolve conflicts in time.
Step 2
If you have enemies, try to find common ground with them. Don't touch on the subject of the conflict, look for common ground in other areas - hobbies, family relationships, etc. Just do not impose your communication. If you notice that you have something to talk about besides enmity - come and talk. And if there is no reason yet, do not insist on the conversation. Empty talk can be perceived as an excuse to renew the conflict.
Step 3
If the enemies do not go to reconciliation, try not to notice their intrigues. Pretend nothing is happening. Very soon they will get tired of nasty things, because it is not the process itself that is important, but your reaction. It's like in a children's team. If the girl is pulled by the pigtail and she cries, they will continue to pull. And if they just turn away and go about their business, they will be left behind. People are not interested in taking actions that do not lead to the expected response.
Step 4
Try to understand why you became enemies with someone, find out the reason for the anger and resentment. Perhaps the "detonator" of the conflict has long since exhausted itself, and you experience negative emotions just out of habit. In this case, let go of the situation, stop thinking about it. Switch to work, family and children. Do what you love, remember your hobby. Life is too interesting to waste time on silly feuds.
