Sometimes the relationship between the child and his teacher is far from being as good and favorable as we would like. Reading the constant notes in the diary, observing bad marks and depressed mood of your child, it is not always clear how to react and behave in this situation. Scolding and punishing him is not an option, but finding a common language with a teacher is sometimes very difficult. How to behave with the teacher so that the current situation does not become more serious and does not negatively affect your child?
Instructions
Step 1
The first step is to find out the cause of the conflict between the teacher and your child. Two options are possible here: either the teacher is too biased towards his student, or, on the contrary, the student does not fulfill all the requirements of his teacher. It is worth understanding this and not rushing to conclusions and decisions. Therefore, before going to school, talk to your child. Let him speak. To correctly assess the situation, it is necessary to know the opinions of both parties. Do not judge the teacher ahead of time.
Step 2
Be calm and calm when talking to your teacher. Do not curry favor with him. You should be, first of all, on the side of your child. Try to objectively look at the situation.
Step 3
Do not be afraid to ask again and clarify why the teacher made exactly these conclusions about your child's behavior. Consider also the classroom atmosphere and teaching style of the school.
Step 4
Be guided by the facts, you should not build guesses and illusions about what and how it could be. Every act, gesture and comment of the teacher towards your child should be motivated and justified. It often happens that teachers take offense at their students and unfairly assess their knowledge and abilities. Try to figure it out and resolve the situation peacefully.
Step 5
If your conversation with the teacher is at an impasse, do not hesitate to ask what way out of the situation he (she) offers. Do not be harsh, do not quarrel with the teacher, try to come to a common opinion. Be prepared to compromise.
Step 6
To maintain a normal relationship with the teacher, do not speak badly about him in the presence of the child. It is important that he changes his negative attitude towards the teacher and towards the subject being studied.
Step 7
Participate in the life of the school, helping teachers in every possible way, attend parent-teacher meetings, be aware of the events taking place in the educational institution. This will save you from the unwanted development of the conflict and unnecessary nagging on the part of the teacher in relation to your child.
