Any parent wants his child to study well, and the role of the teacher in this process can hardly be overestimated. However, teachers are also people, with their own character and manner of communication. And it is better from the first days to make sure that the child and his teacher have found a common language, and that a good trusting relationship develops between them.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, the parent must be able to prove to the child that he will support him in any situation. Many believe that there is nothing wrong with the conflict between the student and the teacher, and they begin to sound the alarm after the child has a neurosis and flatly refuses to go to school. It is better not to bring it up to this, especially since at the first stages of the conflict, the situation can be resolved simply by conversation.
Step 2
Be sure to attend parent-teacher meetings, even if you suspect that you will hear something unpleasant about your child there. If there is any misunderstanding between the student and the teacher, stay after the meeting and talk with the teacher about this topic. Most likely, this will already be enough to resolve the conflict. The teacher respects himself and will not fundamentally be at enmity with the first grader.
Step 3
Invite your child to talk to the teacher himself, especially if your son or daughter is in middle or even high school. Many educators like independent children who try to solve their problems without forcing their parents to do it. It is likely that the teacher and the student will find a common language without your intervention.
Step 4
Try not to make categorical conclusions. Do not tell a child telling you about a conflict with a teacher that an adult cannot be wrong and that the child is to blame for the conflict. Do not even scold his teacher in front of a child. The student must know that his teacher is respected in the family.
Step 5
If a conflict does happen and the parties refuse to listen to each other's opinions, try to involve a school psychologist as an “independent expert”. A competent specialist will help you get out of the conflict without losing the dignity of both the baby and the adult.
Step 6
As a last resort, if understanding does not work out in any way and the teacher and the student have become blood enemies, think about transferring the child to another class or even to another school. This will save your son or daughter's nerves, and you and the teacher.
