The problem of parents and children is not only very ancient, but also relevant as never before in our time. Adults, thinking that they understand better, impose their opinion on literally everything: where to go to study, how to dress, with whom and where to walk, and even which life partner to choose. Adolescents, in turn, try to prove that they are independent and adults, often unsuccessfully. How do you build relationships with your parents?
First advice
… Of course, before the age of 18 it will not be very easy to do this, but as soon as you received a passport, you may well start earning money. It would seem, what does the parents have to do with it? The point is that when you bring your first hard-earned money into the house, your parents will respect you more. Yes, do not be surprised: from a child to an adult is so easy. A gift bought from the first payday for mom will help melt her heart, and who knows, maybe she will let you go to that party, forbidden by her.
Second tip
P. At least you can pretend. Talking about neutral topics such as football or fishing with your dad and your mother about culinary delights will help you bond and bond. You will gain more trust, which is the first step towards freedom.
Third tip
… Do they ask you something, and you keep silent or leave the topic? Or maybe you're even worse rolling up a scandal and slamming doors? Not only will this not solve the problem, but it will make it worse. What if you don't want to reveal your secrets? Try starting the conversation yourself. We talked a little about the good, told us what you can within the acceptable limits. They are happy with the information they received and will not pester you again. These heart-to-heart conversations show the degree of your trust. And as mentioned earlier, trust is the key to freedom.
Fourth tip
… This also shows the degree of your growing up. Water flowers or take out the trash, hammer in a nail, or fix something. This can be done quickly and easily, and most importantly, it effectively helps in relations with parents. Joint activity is the best way possible, it approaches the elimination of misunderstandings, which, in turn, is the root of all problems.
