You were really happy, you felt good together. But something has changed, and there is no more strength or desire to meet with him. It's time to part, but how?
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, you need to make a firm decision about parting. Answer the following questions honestly:
1. Are you ready to break up?
2. Is this a considered decision, and is it just an attempt to rekindle the dying fire of passion?
3. Is this person and his feelings dear to you?
4. Do you want to ruin the relationship forever or would you rather remain friends (albeit over time)?
Find the answers to these questions in your heart and start choosing a way to end the relationship.
Step 2
The first way is “in English”. It consists in the fact that you instantly and overnight disappear from his life. It is ideal to leave somewhere for a while, turn off your phone, do not use the Internet and especially social networks. Pros: the easiest way of parting without explanations and energy costs. Cons: This is at least not fair.
Step 3
The second way is “disassembly”. Express all your complaints directly to his face when you meet, or do it over the phone. Tell him what you didn’t like in your relationship, suggest your own solution to the problem. Pros: the ability to speak out. Cons: Requires a lot of emotional effort. Danger: Strong emotions can catch you off guard, and you won't be able to break up with your boyfriend.
Step 4
Method three - "farewell letter". Write him a letter, no matter how (on paper, by SMS, via the Internet, to an answering machine), the main thing is to tell him what you feel, what bothers you, that you want to leave. Pros: the letter can be rewritten, the words can be thought out, the blow can be softened. Cons: The letter is physical evidence that can be made public (if the guy so desires).
Step 5
The fourth method is "cunning". Make sure that the guy himself becomes the culprit of the breakup, or, for example, he himself would offer you to break up. Choose the method based on personal experience. You can make your relationship unbearable, you can do whatever he doesn't like, or you can stage a scene of his infidelity - all methods are "good", choose the taste. Pros: the ability to simultaneously save face and achieve a goal. Cons: It's a shame to be abandoned.
