Sometimes it is more difficult to talk to a loved one than to suspect him of infidelity. But correctly and on time asked a question about treason can save relationships, get rid of jealousy and quarrels.
Cheating is a stumbling block for many couples. And if trying to catch on a partner is not so difficult, then asking directly is often very difficult. There are several ways to ask if your partner is faithful to you, without scandal and quarrels.
How to ask a man
Women are usually the most suspicious and jealous. And instead of asking your beloved if he ever cheated on her, they begin to look for various signs. Sometimes they are completely stupid (like calls from unknown numbers on the phone or delays at work). How can you ask a man about infidelity?
First, set the right tone for the conversation. It doesn't have to be the question asked during the scandal. A man in the heat of a quarrel may not say at all what you want to hear. Moreover, to hurt you, he may say that there was a betrayal, although this would be wrong. Talk about cheating should be in a calm atmosphere.
Secondly, you should not play around and hint. Men don't always take hints or pretend they don't understand because they don't want to. Ask the question directly. For example, like this: “Honey, did you cheat on me? Honestly. I don't want to swear, I just want to know. And if you have already promised not to swear, then stoically postpone the answer. Especially if he is affirmative.
How to ask a woman
Since the share of female infidelities accounts for a relatively small percentage, you should not suspect your beloved of infidelity without strong reasons. Even if there is even the slightest doubt about a woman's loyalty, you should first ask about it before looking for evidence. How can you ask?
First, no threats. A conversation set in this tone will scare your beloved away. She will not be able to speak honestly and frankly if she knows that after that you will, for example, hit or insult her.
Secondly, you can talk with women in half-hints. For example, by telling about a situation with your friends, where a woman turned out to be unfaithful. Track your woman's reaction, and then ask directly if your spouse cheated on you. Only in a calm tone.
Thirdly, if you are subconsciously ready to forgive your beloved, then tell her about it. For example, like this: “Honey, even if you once stumbled and cheated on me, I’m ready to forgive you, because you are dear to me. Just don't hide anything from me. Speaking in this tone can be very helpful. A rare girl will resist and will lie.
