Too high demands on people, as a rule, ultimately lead to disappointment in them, since your expectations are not met. To avoid constant dissatisfaction with others, it is worthwhile to change your worldview in some way.
Instructions
Step 1
Expecting a particular action from a person, answer the question: why should he do this? Because that's what you want? Or is it because the norms of public morality envisage this? Or for some other reason? It is wrong to demand or expect something from a person that you want. Remember that each person is free to choose his own path, and you cannot impose your own conditions on someone, imposing an algorithm of life that seems to be the only correct one.
Step 2
Realize your desires on your own, without shifting the responsibility for their implementation to others. For example, you dream of a career for your husband, you think that he should strive to take a leading position at all costs, etc. But your spouse may think quite differently, a career may not be included in his plans at all, since his interests may be in other areas - a favorite hobby, family, friends, etc. Due to these disagreements, conflicts and misunderstandings will arise in your family. The most correct decision in this situation would be to make your wish come true on your own - build your own career, being responsible, first of all, for your own destiny.
Step 3
Learn to respect the opinions of other people, do not consider yourself always and absolutely right in everything. Remember that all people are different, each has its own scale of values, its own worldview, which may be different from yours. Your belief that everyone should do this and not otherwise is wrong. Yes, in society there are some unwritten norms of behavior, etiquette, but, firstly, not all people have the same level of upbringing, and secondly, many rules are now simply morally outdated, you and the younger generation can look at them completely by -different.
Step 4
Remember that there are no perfect people in the world, each person, along with positive traits of character, is endowed with some shortcomings. Give up the habit of idealizing a person, elevating him to the rank of almost a saint, remember that everyone can have weaknesses, complexes, fears, prejudices, etc.
Step 5
Analyze your own actions in relation to other people more often. Answer your questions honestly: Have you done everything that was expected of you? Have you let the person down in something? Have you offended anyone? So you will very quickly understand that you are also far from the most flawless person, that perhaps someone, just like you, expects from you an act that you, due to any objective or subjective reasons, are simply not able to do. …
