Some people are always surrounded by friends, relationships with colleagues can only be envied, and their family is an example of ideal relationships. They know how to profitably present themselves so that they will be appreciated. Anyone who wants to succeed in life can learn this.
Instructions
Step 1
In order for others to love you, first of all, you need to work on the perception of yourself. Always remember that you are a person worthy of respect and love, you are interesting regardless of how a stranger perceived you.
Step 2
Don't get hung up on yourself. If you constantly think about how you will look in a given situation, how others will perceive you, sooner or later you will close in yourself, shyness and unwillingness to open up to people will appear. Get rid of shyness, communicate with people, getting to know them as closely as you would like. Sometimes it will not be superfluous to imagine the most unpleasant outcome of events. Then you will understand that no catastrophe will happen in this case, and you can become more open.
Step 3
Be kind. This quality should go with you through life and not leave in any situation. Smiling will make you the person you want to talk to. And a confidential conversation that does not have the goal of subduing the interlocutor will become an occasion to continue communication with you.
Step 4
Watch how you speak. Subconsciously, people around them will perceive a calm pace of speech as a sign of prudence and poise. Too fast a pace will indicate that you want to say too much, and more likely to say something that has little value. Try to pause, slow down your speech.
Step 5
Keep your back straight and your shoulders straight. This position of the body will not only make others feel your inner strength, but you will also feel more significant and more confident in yourself.
Step 6
Keep at ease. Don't try to spend too much effort trying to please others. Building contacts will happen gradually, because first, your new colleagues or acquaintances just need to get to know you. Be yourself, do not try to adapt to each new person in your life. Keeping your individuality, you do not lose personal value, but only add it.
