Probably every woman noticed that a man sometimes does not hear her request or question. Some even young ladies thought that a man was thereby showing disrespect and indifference by his inattention. Let's see why this is happening.
If we analyze the brain of a man, then we can draw the analogy that the brain of a man consists of a large number of boxes. In which he puts everything separately.
In one box he has a house, in another - his wife, in the third - work, in the fourth - a hobby, in the fifth - a car, etc. And he has a great many of such individual boxes. He loves to divide everything separately, and carefully sorts everything into separate boxes. Therefore, men, very often, do not connect sex and love, work and money, home and family, etc. together. For men, everything is in their boxes. In one - sex, and in the other - love. I perfectly understand that in the most ideal case, there should be sex and love in one bottle. But let's agree that everything, it can be different concepts, such as Love without sex, and sex itself without love.
That is why initially a man, one way or another, will try to "sort" everything according to his favorite boxes. And when he is busy with something, then one way or another he "got" one of his boxes and is exactly there. Very often, men like to shift and lay out everything in their place in their box.
But there is also the most important box! This is emptiness! Yes, exactly emptiness. In which a man, one way or another, likes to be for quite a long time.
Have you ever noticed when a man looks at the same point and seems to think about something? Or when he seems to be watching TV, and even if you change some channels, he may not even respond? He is just at the moment in his favorite box, called emptiness. There is absolutely nothing there. It is completely empty. This is the whole charm for a man. He is in the thought process. In fact, his brain just "freezes" and rests.
Probably, it is not without reason that a person who fell into nirvana was a man (Buddha). When a woman asks a man: "What are you thinking?" he replies that: "About nothing," and then the woman asks the man to take her with him. "Let's think about nothing together." And if he takes it with him to his beloved Void box, then he is making a mistake. When a woman sees that there is absolutely nothing in the box, she begins to put things in order there, arrange flowerpots with flowers, decorate it, etc. And that's it! There is no box with emptiness. And already there is a beautiful room:)
But this is good for a woman, but for a man, it is a ruin. There is no cozy place, no habitual state, and the man becomes nervous. There are no guilty ones, and no right. You just need to know what is good for one person, but for another, it may not be very good. This will help avoid mistakes in family life.
It often happens that when a woman turns to a man, it is at this moment that the man is in one of his "boxes". He is all there, and all his consciousness is with him, somewhere deep in his depths of consciousness. And then suddenly, a question or a woman's request sounds to him. And his left (logical) hemisphere asks the right hemisphere: “Did you hear something? Did someone say something?”And the right hemisphere says“No”. Because it is very good for him to be in his favorite "box", even if in one of the most beloved - in the box "emptiness".
Therefore, dear young ladies, do not be too lazy to say your request again if you want your man to hear you.
You cannot compare who is better than a man or a woman. He and she are different! We complement each other. And if one does not have something, the other will have it. Therefore, it is better to learn to understand each other, to study each other. This will help to find mutual understanding in the relationship. This will help you make your man happy.
