People who have nothing to say are always looking for ways to learn how to speak. You rarely meet a person who knows how to learn to remain silent - often we just do not ask this question. Meanwhile, silence can help us avoid many troubles in our life. A word not spoken in time can play a much greater role than an unnecessary one that accidentally escaped.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, get rid of unintentional words. A sense of humor, bright and quick to serve, is highly appreciated in a friendly company of people whom you have known for a long time. And nowhere else. In case you feel like everything inside you is simply torn apart by what you want to say, count to ten in your mind. If it doesn't help, count again.
Step 2
Think logically. What will this situation lead to if you say what you want to say? Do you want this development of events, will it play into your hands? Talk to yourself, consider all the possible consequences, and only speak if it really makes sense for you to speak.
Step 3
Understand your priorities. We all have goals in life that we pursue - think about it, if you really say what you want, is it going in accordance with your priorities? If you doubt even for a second that this is so, you should not say a word, you must be absolutely sure that you need to voice your opinion.
Step 4
Think about whether the person wants to hear what you say to him? In most cases, people do not want to hear what you say to them without thinking - either because it makes them unpleasant, or because it does not matter to them, but only a reason for irritation. Want to be an annoying factor? Most probably not.
