Many young people choose their own object of worship. A room decorated with posters with photos of an idol, calendars, backpacks, T-shirts with the image of your favorite band - this is familiar to almost every teenager. Despite the fact that at a certain age this behavior is normal, in the future fanaticism can interfere with building normal relationships and poison life in a great way. It is definitely necessary to get rid of it, and it is not as difficult to do as it might seem at first glance.
Instructions
Step 1
If you are under sixteen, you can just relax and have fun. Go to concerts of your adored band, watch movies with your favorite artist, find the same fans in your city and arrange parties where you can discuss your object of desire and his work. As you grow up, fanaticism will go away, and you will have friends.
Step 2
If you are still determined to get rid of fanaticism, try to bring yourself to disgust with the idol. Throw the songs of the group from which you are a fan into the player and listen to them constantly, watch their clips day and night, without being distracted by other TV shows and films. Finally, pick a famous hit as your alarm ringtone.
Step 3
Do an act that you will later be ashamed to remember while listening to your favorite song. Dance on the table in your favorite cafe, where all the waiters know you, sew a handsome guy using a line from a love song that you hear. Fall off your bike and bleed your knees during a great guitar play. Do any stupidity, after which this music will no longer be associated with a handsome soloist, but with a failure that you want to forget and not remember.
Step 4
"Love is just a face on the wall, love is a look from the screen." Fanaticism is convenient because it is a safe fall in love, which is why many teenagers go through it. There is no need to seek from the object of love - it is far and unattainable. It is unlikely that you will ever be disappointed in him - he is talented, he thinks through his interviews in advance, stylists, hairdressers and make-up artists work on his image. And all the facts that you do not know about him can be thought out on your own, having received an ideal person. But with age, there is a desire to build close relationships with a living person, and fanaticism fades into the background, leaving only admiration for creativity.
Step 5
As already mentioned, fanaticism usually goes away by the age of sixteen or twenty. If this has not happened to you, perhaps you should understand yourself together with a psychotherapist and find out why you are so afraid of relationships with real people that you prefer to love the image.
