Some people manage to show themselves exclusively from the good side. Others are unable to hide their weaknesses. With the right behavior, you can hide your own flaws.
Instructions
Step 1
Understand that if you demonstrate your weaknesses to others, someone can take advantage of this information. By declaring your own shortcomings, you make yourself a vulnerable person. Do not give others a reason to manipulate you, use your personality traits. Let as few people as possible know about your fears, phobias, doubts. To others, you must appear to be a strong, confident person. This will make it easier for you to achieve your life goals.
Step 2
Control your own emotions. The better you learn to hide how you feel and what you think, the easier it will be for you to interact with other people. The art of self-control is not given to everyone. But you must work on yourself so that feelings do not take over your consciousness. Use a variety of techniques that help you quickly get ready, calm down, come to your senses. For example, auto-training, meditation, breathing exercises may be useful to you.
Step 3
Don't focus on your flaws. You should not discuss with someone the individual characteristics of your personality, especially with a person whom you do not really trust. If in a conversation or some situation, information flashed that you are afraid of something, do not know how to do something, do not focus on this. Be calm, dispassionate. Then no one will notice what happened.
Step 4
Strengthen your strengths. Pay attention to developing your strengths, skills, and talents. So you will be able to strengthen your position, become a stronger, more integral personality. Concentrate on your positive qualities. Do not dwell on your own shortcomings. Think and speak of yourself as a respectable, intelligent, positive, and good person. Negative statements in your address, even thrown without much sense at the moment of irritation, can sit in the subconscious and make you more vulnerable.
Step 5
Try to get rid of your bad habits. It is not only willpower that will help you in this. Choosing the right motivation and understanding that some weaknesses do you nothing but harm are important. Imagine what your life could be like if you beat your bad habits. The realization that they only hinder you from achieving success in various areas and improving the quality of life should motivate you to work on yourself.
Step 6
Avoid situations where your weaknesses may be particularly noticeable. It's up to you to overcome or hide your shortcomings. But if you are not ready to detect them at the moment, you should not provoke unwanted positions. For example, if you are not inclined to extreme sports, do not settle for rafting down a mountain river. A person who is afraid to give presentations to an audience does not need to choose a profession that involves a large number of public speaking.
