Every representative of humanity knows perfectly well from childhood that lying is bad, but most people lie. Someone in order to avoid problems / reproaches / curses, someone out of pure curiosity: "What will happen next?" Whatever one may say, lying is an integral part of our life.
not given to everyone. The main mistake of beginners is that they quickly split not with words, but with gestures and given out emotions. In modern society, the ability to lie is often simply necessary, given the fact that gullible and naive people are biased and often manipulated. The cruel world dictates its own rules and conditions. As the saying goes: "Be able to twirl." You need to know just a few basic principles of recognizing a lie, so as not to be caught in it yourself. We give the same specific answer to a direct question. The longer you delay with the expected response, the more suspicion and mistrust you will create in the listener's eyes.
You need to be able to quickly navigate and understand the essence of the issue so as not to puncture. Do not ask again, many people use the "deaf effect" to take the time to choose the right answer, and this is definitely a sign of a lie.
Keep calm. Nervousness, secrecy reveal all the cards at once. When a person speaks exclusively the truth, he is confident in himself and in his words in the same way.
Another mistake: "I swear I didn't." Do not use this tactic, not only is this a disregard for religious principles, but also another reason to give yourself out with your own hands. Few know about this feature, but it should still be taken into account. For example, "I haven't slept with her." The pronoun "with her" replaces the person's name. So a person hides his emotions in relation to this person.
In the process of lying, the body is far from our friend. Any gestures can betray a liar, but the undoubted plus is that these reactions issued by the body can often only be recognized by a psychologist. For example, during an emotional conversation, everyone gestures, recalling feelings and emotions experienced, and the one who lies, does not do this, because it did not happen, there is, accordingly, nothing to remember.
Do not forget that in life we encounter such a phenomenon as a boomerang. Oddly enough, but this is real. Everyone had a situation when you acted inappropriately, and after a while you were treated many times worse.
Deception in the modern world is used at every step. A trivial example: a salesperson in a store will tell you anything just to sell the product.
Think before you lie. If a lie is revealed, and most often it happens, you ruin a good relationship, they will stop trusting you.
