When a person is 16 years old, the issue of devotion is very acute, as if the light converges on him like a wedge! An inappropriate laugh of a friend at someone's joke may seem like an insidious betrayal …
Age and dedication
Indeed, at 16, loyalty is valued more than a bag of gold. And this is quite understandable from the point of view of psychology. At this age, a teenager has a particularly keen desire to find friends in spirit, to become part of a social group, to express himself, etc.
After five to ten years, the need for devotion has not diminished. A person also wants to have loyal friends. However, this devotion takes on a different connotation. For example, it is possible that a person will not be offended by the fact that one friend discussed his personal life with another, in general, there is already an understanding that this is quite a common phenomenon for society.
There are good friends, now it is required that the other half also adhere to the framework of fidelity: did not cheat, did not flirt, did not tell to the left and to the right of secrets and secrets. Devotion is the foundation of a relationship. The conclusion about its value no longer suggests itself, but falls loudly!
Devotion and belief
It's one thing when a person expects loyalty from others and tries not to break promises himself. Another thing is when you need to be loyal to your principles.
Imagine you have a friend who is often in a bad mood. And all because he needs to be not completely honest with his clients. For example, he sells sports nutrition, which is not a model of quality, and even for fabulous money. The employee freaks out, the situation in which he finds himself is unpleasant, but a dilemma arises: find a new place of work or stay in the old place.
It turns out that in this situation the future life of a person depends on devotion to one's beliefs.
Another thing is when a person cannot be devoted to his interests. For example, he loves to write texts, he needs to try and achieve high results. But it does not work out in any way - the willpower let us down. And here the feeling of devotion calls for help conscience and unjustified expectations, and all together they begin to gnaw at the consciousness of a person. However, if the feeling of devotion is not so strongly developed, then there will be no consequences, in principle there will be nothing there.
Curiously, the value of a sense of devotion cannot be calculated, but the consequences can be imagined. The moral state of a person from betrayal to a sense of devotion becomes far from positive. And what can we say about those who are "lucky" to be loyal. Not everyone will be able to get back on their feet, force themselves to believe in other people again.
