The twentieth century for our country was marked not only by a number of wars, great discoveries and accomplishments, but also by the departure from spiritual values that have been instilled over the centuries. The cultural heritage in the form of temples, religion, customs was deliberately erased from the consciousness of the people and partly from the face of the Earth. Several generations grew up in an atmosphere of atheism and denial of everything related to faith. However, the dashing nineties brought not only the dawn of private business and the redistribution of property, but also a massive revolution in the minds of the public. Those who did not break down, catching their breath from sudden changes and learning to live in new conditions, reached out to church. One way or another, but in the depths of his soul, everyone, even the most ardent atheist, feels that there is something above us - something that guides and protects in difficult times, comforts in sorrow and gives peace to the soul. Someone calls it intuition, someone a guardian angel. This does not change the essence of things. So where is the truth hidden? How to find your bright path and learn to hear your inner voice?
Instructions
Step 1
“Don’t believe, don’t be afraid, don’t ask” I must say that the title of the title is somewhat ambiguous. Let us explain each setting separately. “Don't believe” - this does not apply to faith itself, it means an attentive attitude towards people. Trust is good, but you don't have to trust everyone you meet. Listen carefully, try to understand. Empathy and empathy do amazing things (but empathy, not pity). We are all living people, therefore, we have vices and internal attitudes. Most often, it is the most amiable and courteous who turn out to be traitors, and vice versa - cold and restrained at first glance, with closer communication, surprise with their hidden spiritual qualities: devotion, kindness, generosity. First impressions are often deceiving. Friend is known in trouble! "Do not be afraid" - do not be afraid to live, to allow yourself what you dream of, even if at first glance it seems impossible or unattainable. What are you really afraid of: condemnation, contempt, malice from the same people? Not worth it. By and large - no one cares about each other. And each of the ill-wishers in the depths of his soul is afraid that you will succeed. The main task of everyone is to live life so that later you do not regret the wasted years. Everyone has their own path, and no one except you knows how it will be better. Fears are often hidden behind the mask of anger and sarcasm. Strong people are never evil. The path to happiness is not the easiest, however, stumbling in place, fearfully looking around, you will not only achieve nothing, but also risk earning depression, apathy for everything that happens, not to mention self-esteem, which will rapidly begin to decline with the speed of a downed fighter … "Do not ask". The asking person puts himself in a subordinate position. They love to pity the poor, but they do not respect them. There is no need to raise someone's self-esteem at your own expense. If a person wants to help, he will help, and there is no need to explain anything. If you want something to appear in life, start giving. Give people warmth, love, good mood, attention. Not immediately, but over time you will feel that the recoil has gone. As it is sung in one good children's song: "Share your smile, and it will come back to you more than once."
Step 2
“Be attentive to your feelings” Feelings are an excellent indicator of our state and mood. They show what we really want. It is generally accepted that a person is his own master. This is true, but only half true. Most beliefs are imposed by society, parents, the mentality of the country or area of residence. Everyone is screaming about freedom, but one way or another, no one has it. Try to understand one simple truth: "what you feel is what you think about, and not vice versa!" You can deceive friends, parents, even your family, but how can you explain to your heart that the level of happiness tends to zero? You can't run away from yourself. Only what gives pleasure, gives joy and gives strength makes sense. Throwing away fears, you can reach unprecedented heights in any area of life. Therefore, forward to a brighter future. Only choose honest paths to achieve your goals.
Step 3
“Do not shift the responsibility for your life to others.” Sometimes it is pleasant to return to childhood: cry, shout, blame anyone, but not yourself, for all the misfortunes. However, this behavior is not only destructive, but also completely ineffective. It turns out that at this moment you confirm your personal insolvency, relieve yourself of any responsibility and, as a result, lose control over reality. Everything that was not done at gunpoint is a personal choice, and only you are solely responsible for all the consequences. True, at gunpoint there is also a choice - either to obey or.. But let's not talk about sad things. Once you start thinking about what you are doing and saying, awareness will come, there will be more confidence and options for further action. Any situation that arises requires careful analysis. Do not get excited, do not chop off the shoulder. Before doing something, weigh the pros and cons several times. Think about whether you will regret or be glad that you did this and not otherwise. The proverb says: "Measure seven times, cut once." Actually, in life, this is largely the case. Any risk must be justified. Do not act rashly and do not expect anything from other people. No one owes nothing to nobody. All people are selfish, therefore they act in the best way for themselves. Is it possible to be angry with someone for the chosen path? This is a personal matter for everyone. Your task is to listen to yourself and act according to your conscience. Regardless of what happened, treat it as an experience, not a defeat. As long as a person is alive, anything can be changed and replayed, even if at first glance it seems impossible.
