It is human nature to change, and this happens all the time. But sometimes you want to transform not only your life, but also the existence of others. Very often this is done with the best of intentions, but even that kind of motivation does not always bring happiness.
Instructions
Step 1
Intervention in the life of another person is possible, there are thousands of examples when parents or friends influence the relationship in a couple, dictate their requirements and make peace or quarrel with loved ones. This impact can be direct, very noticeable, and not bright, hidden. In both cases, some goal is pursued. Likewise, parents keep their children under control until a certain age, and managers at work influence the time of employees. These processes take place in all areas.
Step 2
No one can definitely give advice - to interfere in the life of another or not, it all depends on the circumstances. Sometimes a look from the outside is sobering, but sometimes it leads to even more problems. It is important to find a balance here when it is not worth doing something. There is no need to make an effort if you are not asked and asked for help. In this case, one can observe, adhere to a certain position, but not declare it. If a person needs it, he will turn, and only then is it worth speaking his opinion.
Step 3
It is worth changing the life of another when he himself cannot cope with some difficulties, makes many attempts, but he fails. And if it's not difficult for you, then you can help. But here it is important that a person first tries himself, and does not immediately rely on someone. Constant support can deprive a person of the desire to achieve something, and then it will no longer be help.
Step 4
Help is needed when there is a risk of another person dying. For example, an accident, illness or dangerous situation sometimes requires prompt intervention. In this case, you should not postpone actions, you need to change a person's life without hesitation. And there are times when a loved one does not realize that he is threatened by something serious, that the future depends on it, in this case it is necessary to explain everything clearly, to show with examples. This will avoid big complications.
Step 5
But you should not impose your opinion on simple issues. Very often, parents convince their children of where to go to study, who they are becoming. And this can ruin the life of the child, because the opinion of the elders may not coincide with the needs of the teenager. It can also be persistently offered a choice when entering into marriage, when determining a place of work. And these are attempts to help change life, but they are not always joyful. It is impossible for one person to understand what another person needs. Each personality is unique, and the position of a manager will suit one, and the work of an artist for others. The choice made for a person is like a shackle, it is difficult to get out of it, and there is no happiness in it.
