Living a full life, being active, sociable, keeping up with everything, not getting hung up on trifles and never regretting anything is the dream of most of the world's population. And for many, it remains unattainable. Years go by, but nothing changes in life.
Almost all difficulties are rooted in the fact that people have problems with time. More precisely, in his perception. The inability to properly dispose of precious minutes is unsettling, hands are lowered and a lot of things remain on the pages of the diary. And so day after day. As a result, the desire to do anything at all disappears. Of course, this interferes with success and undermines self-confidence.
In fact, the lion's share of time is spent on completely empty experiences. For example, many people like to plunge into their past and compare it with the present. It's good if the memories are pleasant. But some people like to remember their mistakes and mistakes. Time cannot be turned, nothing can be fixed. And the heavy burden of past failures will drag you back. It is better to direct all your mental strength to pressing problems. After all, you need to live in the present, not the past. And frequent travel in time is fraught with isolation from reality. The past is irrevocable. You shouldn't regret him, you shouldn't revel in them. One can only learn a lesson from it and move on.
Constant thoughts about the future can also play a cruel joke. In fact, the future does not exist - it is something abstract and no one knows what awaits him in the future. The more real a person lives in the present, the better his future will be. Making endless plans is ridiculous and stupid, because circumstances often turn out not at all the way you want. Of course, you need to dream - you can't do without it. You just need to be able to stop in time and not turn your life into empty dreams. After all, in order to embody them, you must first descend from heaven to earth.
It is even worse when a person sees his future only in black and gray tones. Even if it is not very good now, the situation will definitely change in the future. Moreover, often at the most unexpected moment. And if you wait all the time for the bad, then you can call it. After all, thoughts, after all, are material. Therefore, you need to take care of the future, but do not worry about it.
An endless desire to be in time for everything leads, unfortunately, to the opposite effect. Humans are not robots. They don’t have five arms, they don’t have three heads. Therefore, there is no need to take on the amount of work that cannot be done even by four. Household chores, work, family and children, parents and friends - everything and everyone takes time. But trying to be in time everywhere, as well as an attempt to do five things at the same time, can turn into nervous exhaustion. It is much more important to be consistent in business and accept the fact that it is impossible to do everything. It is better to learn how to correctly prioritize things than to try to do everything at any cost. The fees may be too high.
Many factors are responsible for the quality of life: these are circumstances, and personal qualities, and living conditions. But to a greater extent, fate is determined by habits that either interfere with living fully or help build a happy future. Therefore, there is no need to worry about what happened and what else will happen. You need to use the present fruitfully.
