Communication between people always begins with an acquaintance. Some people are easy to get in touch with others, some are more difficult. But there are men who cannot meet beautiful women, and there is an explanation for this.
Causes of male fear
There is a lot of meaning in the old Slavic proverb: "Do not be born beautiful, but be born happy." Indeed, the external beauty of a woman often simply scares off men, and in most cases they remain alone. A man's fears of dating an attractive girl are based on several facts.
Often, guys are sure that a beautiful girl has many fans, so she cannot be alone.
One fear factor is the fear of a girl's rejection, which can deal a significant blow to a man's self-esteem and lower his self-esteem.
Although in most cases, self-confident men still achieve acquaintance and continue communication.
The second reason for men's indecision is the question of whether they will be able to master all the desires and requirements of a beautiful woman. There is a very widespread opinion among guys that it is beautiful girls who enter into relationships only by calculation, and love and other feelings are not inherent in them.
Some men are not confident enough in themselves and believe that a pretty woman, being next to them, will still look for and select a suitable candidate for herself. And as soon as she finds one, she will immediately make her choice not in their favor. This is another stopper for dating attractive girls.
There is an opinion that all beautiful women are bitches. This fact also scares men off, as there is a chance of falling in love and being abandoned as soon as the woman gets tired of it. There are also guys who are simply uncomfortable being in a company with a beautiful girl. This is also a sign of a man's lack of confidence in himself and his powers.
In addition to the common causes of male fear of women, there is also a disease called venustraphobia. Men suffering from this disease, at the sight of beautiful women, experience an accelerated heartbeat, their breathing stops, their health worsens, and sometimes even fainting is possible.
Factors influencing the continuation of dating
External beauty is just an excuse to get acquainted. In the process of communication, other factors are revealed that can affect the development of further relationships. Men, no matter how they deny it, pay attention to how tender, caring, sensual and sexy a woman is. And these features have nothing to do with appearance.
There is a concept of charm, when pleasant external data are complemented by the warmth of a woman, positive vibes that a man fills with in the process of communicating with such a woman. And the representative of the stronger sex, being next to her, charges himself and begins to "glow". In this case, he will no longer pay attention to the possible physical defects of his companion. Communication with such a woman will become cozy and comfortable.
