Sometimes people find themselves in difficult situations. They do not know how to talk to a person, to win him over, to ask for something. All of this stops being problematic with a few simple tricks.
Instructions
Step 1
When communicating in a company consisting of more than 2 people, people most often turn their feet towards the person who is most interesting to them.
Step 2
It is surprising, but if, while playing "rock, paper, scissors", you ask your opponent questions, then he is more likely to show scissors.
Step 3
Never ask questions containing denial ("Can you help me"). This, on a subconscious level, pushes the person to answer "no".
Step 4
If you need help (to hold something, for example), then just give the object to the person, but at the same time continue to engage in dialogue with him. Most likely, the interlocutor will not notice anything.
Step 5
To endear the other person to you, simply rephrase and repeat what he just said to you. Then he will understand that he is really being listened to.
Step 6
As a rule, when a large company laughs, everyone looks at the one who likes him the most.
Step 7
Copy the pose of the interlocutor, then he will begin to treat you more kindly.
Step 8
If you need to hear the answer "yes" to your question, then when asking it, just nod. This will set the person up to respond positively, and the more likely you will hear what you wanted.
Step 9
Surprisingly, if you mentally give a gift to a person you don't like, then soon the enmity between you will come to naught.
Step 10
Even if you are notorious and insecure, then try to make others think that everything is exactly the opposite, people will reach out to you. After all, everyone loves self-confident people who understand what they are talking about.
Step 11
If you want to ask a person for something, choose a request that the person cannot fulfill. After he refused, ask him to do what you need. A person will certainly agree, because against the background of the previous one, a real request will seem trifling.
Step 12
If you're too lazy to do something, like make dinner, tell your spouse that he just cooked those steaks beautifully last week. Most likely, he will be inspired by the praise and will do it again.
Step 13
Look the other person directly in the eyes. In most cases, you will become more attractive to him. However, at times this can cause aggression.
Step 14
If you do not know at all what to give your friend, then just say that you have already bought him a gift and offer to guess. He will simply list everything that he would like to receive, and then it's up to you.
Step 15
Try to call the person by their first name as often as possible. This will make the other person feel positive about you.
