Sometimes it happens that you are jealous of people who give out coherent text at machine-gun speed, or you are angry with yourself because you thought too long what to say, and the moment was lost. Or it took a long time to choose the best option for constructing a phrase, but they didn't listen to you. At this moment, as a rule, many people have a desire - to speak and not think.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't be jealous of the person's ability to speak very quickly. Usually such people are very aroused in communication, react like choleric and are prone to mood swings. They are more likely to get sick with a disease such as manic-depressive psychosis. It is not always comfortable to be with them, and this can interfere no less than indecision. They are not the best people to work in a team.
Step 2
It is worth learning from such people one important quality - the ability to forgive yourself for mistakes in advance, that is, to recognize the right to make mistakes for yourself. Do you think radio presenters say little nonsense? No, they are constantly mistaken, but they are not afraid to speak further! Allow yourself to give an inaccurate or incomplete answer or ask a question with a mistake, and you will less have to reproach yourself for indecision. Nobody expects absolute perfection from you, moreover, too “correct” people are annoying.
Step 3
Constantly work on developing your speech. If you are more concerned about communication in the professional field, read as much of the relevant literature as possible, saying the text read to yourself. Quantity will turn into quality, your brain will become more confident in constructing phrases and they will begin to be born much faster. If you have time, after reading an important sentence, cover it with your hand and reproduce it from memory in your own words. This develops the operational characteristics of thinking, that is, over time, you will more quickly choose the best variant of the phrase.
Step 4
In addition, the increased competence will be noticed and will have a good effect on professional prospects. If you want to communicate more effectively in person, read the popular psychological literature and books on your hobbies using the same technique. Then share your knowledge with those who share your passion. A person who has a lot of fresh information will be very interesting even to strangers. You will feel more confident, speak faster and not hesitate.
