A person is responsible for his family and friends. But responsibility to oneself is much more important. For committed deeds and thoughts. If a person is brought up like this, he will never remain indifferent. Can a sense of responsibility be increased?
Instructions
Step 1
To cultivate a sense of responsibility, make a firm decision. Start each morning by repeating the phrase, "I am the only one responsible for my life." Repeat it aloud for five minutes, instill it in yourself. For everything that will happen to you during the day, take responsibility for yourself. Continue to do this until you have convinced yourself that this statement is true. This will help you stop blaming others for your failures.
Step 2
Pay more attention to your words. Before making a promise, consider how much you can keep it. If you gave your word, then fulfill it, even if you lose in something. This will teach you to be more responsible for promises and not to waste words.
Step 3
Give yourself written instructions. Write on a piece of paper what you have to accomplish during the day. Keep the paper in plain sight so you can see what else needs to be done.
Step 4
You should try to do some organizational work. For example, in a work team, try to organize a joint vacation. All responsibility for holding the event will rest with you. And you will have to really prove yourself in order not to lose face.
Step 5
Spend more time with your children. Make it a rule to be interested in your child's success at school, his health, and friends. The more knowledge you get about a child's life, the more your responsibility for his future will grow.
Step 6
At the same time, do not try to take responsibility for the actions of others. Even if they are very close to you. If your child does not want to pursue higher education, it is his own choice, and you should not blame yourself for it. By letting things go by themselves, you will avoid unpleasant conversations. But when you try to rectify the situation, take a responsible approach.
