Someone cannot gather courage and leave their home, divorce an unloved husband or change jobs. And for some, getting up at the call of the alarm clock is a serious problem. We deal with big and small solutions every day. How can one gain courage when the soul longs for change, but fears and doubts do not allow the desired to be realized?
Instructions
Step 1
Love the change. Everything flows, everything changes. People who can't get used to it are in constant stress. If you do nothing, this does not mean that everything around will remain unchanged. Everything will change, but only without your will and far from the way you would like it. Therefore, it is better to gather your courage and move on to action yourself, than to allow circumstances to carry you with the flow.
Step 2
Imagine the most dire consequences of your decision. Now think if they are so scary. Perhaps the game really is "not worth the candle", and this decision does not have to be made. But often people exaggerate the danger of their actions and get nervous in vain. For example, if you don't like living in a new city, this is not the end of the world, because you can always return.
Step 3
Now think about what good things can be in store for you if you brace yourself and make a decision. For example, in the event of a move, a change of environment will immediately bring fresh impressions, interesting people, and new opportunities to life. Visualize pictures of a happy future. A person's consciousness forms the surrounding reality, and if you want something badly, sooner or later it will come true. Believe in success!
Step 4
Become aware of your fears. Work to get rid of them. A person who just cannot muster the courage to do something is tormented by inner fears. Not daring to confess his love, he is afraid to be ridiculed. Remaining in a long-boring job, he is afraid that he will not be appreciated in a new place. Fearing failure, she does not dare to start her own business. But according to Milorad Pavic, the right direction is where your fear grows. If you can't muster up the courage, it indicates an inner weakness that needs to be worked on. Improve self-esteem, improve your professional and personal qualities, get rid of unnecessary attachments.
Step 5
Listen to your intuition. Obeying logic, a person begins to weigh the pros and cons. Of course, thinking logically is good, but this process often leads a person to a dead end. If you think carefully, you can find all the new pros and cons, which as a result will be … equally. And this only prevents you from gaining courage and taking action. Listen to yourself and try to understand if you really want something to happen that you cannot decide on. Do you like what you have personally conceived, or are your relatives, society, stereotypes persuaded to do so? Stay alone with yourself in some quiet place and listen to your inner voice. Intuitively, a person knows what he wants, but the restless work of the brain often leads to unnecessary doubts and indecision.
Step 6
Don't be afraid to make mistakes. Dali's shocking genius argued that there is "something from God" in the mistake. Be creative and optimistic about life. Did you make a mistake in making a decision? This is a chance to be smart in order to correct the situation, gain experience, discover something new for yourself. In the end, there are no bad or good decisions, and everything depends only on the attitude towards them.
