Alas, almost everyone can face humiliation, that is, an insult to human dignity. It is expressed, as a rule, either in the form of frankly rude, on the verge of rudeness, nagging, claims, or in the form of maliciously offensive ridicule, "jokes". In some cases, it may be accompanied by physical violence or attempts to use it. So what should you do if you are humiliated?
Instructions
Step 1
Even for a "thick-skinned" person, it is not so easy to endure humiliation. What can we say about sensitive people, painfully reacting to even the slightest injustice or impoliteness! For them, this is a real torture, which can lead to very sad consequences, such as nervous or heart diseases. In especially severe cases, it even comes to suicide attempts. No wonder there is an article in the criminal law: "Driving to suicide."
Step 2
If we are talking about a schoolchild who is being bullied by his classmates, made a "whipping boy" - this is a very difficult case. First, children are often unknowingly violent simply because of their age and lack of life experience. Secondly, it is extremely difficult to bring juvenile hooligans to criminal responsibility.
Step 3
Sometimes this method can help: find a "weak spot" in the most active offender, and make him a laughing stock - in order to persecute and humiliate him. In the most extreme case, your child will have to fight: alas, there are children who do not understand another language. But, as a rule, it is better to transfer the child to another school.
Step 4
If humiliation comes from a tyrant boss, try not to succumb to provocations. Refrain from retaliatory harshness, insults. After all, this is exactly what he expects from you! By doing this, you not only show that his efforts are reaching the goal, but also give him a reason for new nagging, and, perhaps, for your dismissal. Understand: for such boors, the worst thing is if they receive icy politeness in return. Try also after each "run over" to demand an answer: what exactly did you do wrong at work, what was wrong. Remember that the wording “Well, I don’t like you, I don’t like you!” has no legal effect.
Step 5
Well, and if you are humiliated by one of your close people. For example, a mother-in-law loves to “wind her soul” to her daughter-in-law, or a mother-in-law to her son-in-law. Politely but firmly make it clear that you will not tolerate this in the future. Doesn't get it - for a while, defiantly end all relations. Do not go to their house and do not receive them yourself, ignore calls. This usually works quickly!
