Few things can disrupt partnerships as much as cheating. Experts estimate that about 60% of married men and 40% of married women have ever had an extramarital relationship. However, less than 10% of people get divorced due to infidelity.
Cheating is not the end. Although cheating can be devastating to relationships, it can be dealt with even if it takes a long time. Infidelity is "curable." Even if it may seem incredible, only the desire of the partners is enough for the relationship to function and continue after the betrayal has taken place.
Here are the steps that can help you if you cheat:
1. Be honest about your romance. If you lie and the untruth comes to light later, the newly built trust will take another big blow. Women want to know exactly what happened. Refusing to answer questions only irritates her curiosity and imagination. She will imagine what has not happened. Your partner has the right to have an honest, open conversation.
2. Try together to find the reason for your wrongdoing. If it is rooted in dissatisfaction in one particular area, it's time to start working on bug fixes. Remember, however, that desire must come from both of you.
3. Be prepared for emotional outbursts and affective responses. Realize that your partner is entitled to them. Let her express her feelings, emotions and thoughts.
4. She may want to spend some time away from you. Let her do it.
5. Ask her what you can do to make her trust you again. Show her that you are seriously interested in this.
