Indecisive men are often afraid of both starting and developing relationships with women. It may seem to them that their chosen one is too beautiful, too smart, and simply divine, so she probably already has so many fans. In such cases, the woman herself has to conquer the man she likes.
How to behave with an indecisive man
If you find that your partner is very indecisive, the first thing you should do is be patient. You do not need to be angry with him, press, force events - all this can make a man disappear altogether or scare him so that he will no longer come up to you. But at the same time, you should not be too soft and pliable, expecting the first step from him. Choose a middle ground and act calmly and carefully.
Try to boost the man's self-esteem. It is important to do this unobtrusively and without too much flattery. It makes sense to ask him for a service that he can definitely provide, and admire the level of his knowledge and skill. Find out what a man does best and take advantage of it. Let him feel skillful, strong, needed. As you develop your relationship, remember to fuel his man's interest in you and maintain his self-esteem.
As a last resort, when time or patience is running out, you can put the person in front of an urgent choice and thus force him to act quickly and decisively. For example, a woman who wants to gain recognition can secretly inform that she was offered a job in another city and, if nothing keeps her, in a few days she will leave for good.
An indecisive man: steps to getting closer to him
Demonstrate to your chosen one that you are interested in him, show your sympathy. But remember that, unfortunately, indecisive men understand hints very poorly and often brush them aside, because they are afraid that in fact they are only playing with them. Communicate in a friendly and welcoming manner, show special interest, but do not push too hard. Gradually, the man will become convinced of what means more to you than other people.
Try flirting a little. Light coquetry, touching at the level of friendly touches, words spoken in a whisper in the ear, direct eye-to-eye gaze - all these are standard techniques that men, as a rule, interpret automatically. You do not need to seem available to him - it is enough just to gently show that he can behave more daringly and move on to closer communication.
If the opportunity presents itself to start a natural heart-to-heart conversation, do so. Share your feelings and doubts, trust - let the man see how vulnerable you are, let him understand that you may need protection and care. This will help him open up in response and even push him to want to take you under his wing.
