The process of breaking up a relationship in most cases is quite painful. Especially if they lasted a long time and the partners managed to become very attached to each other. However, life does not stand still, do not isolate yourself and do not get hung up on this. Pass this life test with honor.
Unfortunately, this happens in life, and any relationship ends, love disappears. Parting is less painful if it is carried out with the consent of both partners, however, if this is not the case, then the loving half suffers greatly.
In the latter case, it is necessary to show tact and patience as much as possible. In the process of parting, the following basic rules must be observed:
- do not offend your partner
Try to break up as kindly as possible. You should not try to hurt each other as much as possible during the conversation. Offensive statements are similar to a game of ping-pong, everyone tries to have the last answer behind him and he touched his partner as painfully as possible. However, none of the partners will be happy from this.
- tell him the truth
Be honest. Calmly and gently tell your partner how you feel and ask them to do so in return. Let your words sound sincere. The conversation will be painful, but it will be cleansing and relieving.
- part friends
Do not "burn bridges", maintain as friendly a relationship as possible. Try to break up as friends.
Parting is not easy for both women and men. During the period of the relationship, partners manage to get used to each other, become emotionally attached, and become relatives. After that, it is very difficult to break the existing ties, even if they have outlived their usefulness, therefore, before entering into a relationship, you need to realize a certain degree of responsibility to each other, so that later it will not be so painful.
