We constantly find ourselves in a situation of choice. Whether it is the choice of a morning drink - coffee or tea, or the choice of a life partner - to answer a "yes" or "no" sentence. And even if you are not called down the aisle every day, during the day the world around you throws up a lot of alternatives and opportunities to realize your choice.
It is necessary
goal, determination, courage, means to an end, self-confidence
Instructions
Step 1
In order to realize our choice, we need to understand what we really want. This is the key point. Someone, when answering this question, will be guided by a sixth sense, someone will carefully weigh all the arguments for and against.
Step 2
You have set a goal, what you want to achieve or get. The goal may be short-term: ordering a fruit cake at the moment, not a chocolate one. As a rule, when a person tries to choose between something, his subconscious already knows the right decision. Or a long-term goal: to find an interesting job with a decent salary, for example. And if it is more or less easy to implement a choice with a short-term goal, then this procedure is more difficult with a long-term goal. Having outlined and formulated a goal, or better - even written down, think over and mark what you can use to achieve it. Make detailed step-by-step instructions. Having laid out the means for realizing your goal literally on the shelves, so it will be easier for you to be guided by them. This means that you can move faster along the path to the target.
Step 3
After a while, try to analyze which of the above helps you to achieve your goal, and which does not affect in any way or, on the contrary, slows down. Filter out the unnecessary, unnecessary and continue to act on a successful strategy. And so every time, as soon as you feel that you are marking time - step back and look back.
Step 4
And, of course, the implementation of any choice, either short-term or long-term, is impossible without the effort of will and courage, a willingness to act. Remember what you need: a well-defined goal generously seasoned with determination, a pinch of courage at the tip of a knife, self-confidence as the main ingredient, add an arsenal of tools to taste.
