First, you need to ask yourself: should you stop being gay? After all, homosexuality is not a disease, it is extremely rarely associated with mental disorders (egodystonia). And society, in this case Russian, although it does not become more tolerant, but also shows aggression towards gays quite rarely. However, the cases are different. It is necessary - it means it is necessary.
Instructions
Step 1
Ask yourself one last question: Do you really want to try traditional relationships? Don't answer right away. Consider age, homosexual experience, remember when and under what circumstances you realized that you are gay, whether your loved ones are ready for such changes, and whether you yourself are ready to experience some inconvenience associated with the fact that a change in sexual orientation will entail a change in image life?
Step 2
Considering that homosexuality is not only about same-sex sex, but a full range of feelings, start by trying to express sympathy for people of the opposite sex. It will be difficult at first, but don't try to immediately treat a woman like a woman. Try to get interested in her as a person. Look for something that you absolutely like and that does not correlate with gender in any way.
Step 3
Behavior, including sexual behavior, balances between three spheres: instincts, emotions and reason. Sexual attraction is pure instinct, love is the emotion that underpins it, and relationships are the intelligent settlement of emotions and instincts. On the contrary, it also happens: the mind is not able to restrain either emotions or instincts. Deal with yourself. Although man is a primate, but still not an animal, sometimes it is better to think than to follow feelings. Especially if they are caused, for example, by the fashion for everything forbidden (gays are not by birth, but "at the behest of the time" are encountered quite often).
Step 4
Change the cultural background. LGBT mass culture often resembles a sect: films for gays, clothes for gays, perfumes for gays, etc. Refuse to present yourself as a gay person. By being greeted by your clothes, you can quickly and easily reconfigure your mind.
Step 5
If long-term attempts to influence your own sexual orientation do not bring tangible results, stop and, if necessary, return to them no earlier than six months or a year later. During this time, you will have more than one opportunity to weigh the pros and cons and approve or cancel your earlier choice.
