Almost every person at least once in his life came to the point when it became impossible to continue to exist according to the previously established scenario and changes were required. However, it is one thing to dream about them, and quite another to decide to implement them. Not everyone dares to the latter, being afraid of the unknown ahead of them. Nevertheless, making real life changes is much easier than it might seem.
Necessary
- - cleaning
- - systematization
- - new hobbies and interests
- - change in appearance
- - "reset" of relations with a partner
Instructions
Step 1
Start with the little things. Changes in life will not always be cardinal, requiring a complete rejection of everything that was an integral part of your existence earlier. First of all, organize cleaning in the home - in order to get rid of the accumulated rubbish. Throw it away mercilessly, making an exception only for memorabilia that need to be preserved for posterity (in particular, a photo). Plan this cleaning step by step. For example, today you find houses and throw away old magazines, tomorrow - kitchen utensils, the day after tomorrow - DVDs, etc.
Step 2
Take care of organizing and organizing everything that happens around you. Try to put things that you have to use strictly in a specific place in the house or in your office. Get a notebook in order to relieve your mind of unnecessary information, and keep a record of your upcoming affairs and events. In addition, never leave anything in a faulty or damaged condition. Darn all holes in your clothes, and close open cabinet doors.
Step 3
After cleaning in the surrounding space, do the same "cleaning" in your own mind. Cleanse him of self-deprecating thoughts, unnecessary complexes and other negative information. Write down all of your strengths and talents that make you unique, valuable, and unique. Begin to develop these qualities and actively apply them. Reward yourself for even the slightest success in such endeavors and learn to love yourself just for who you are.
Step 4
Feel free to take up some unusual hobby for which you previously did not have the courage. For example, learn to dive, mountaineering, go-karting, skydiving, etc. Such steps will help you in removing psychological complexes that previously hindered your development. Expand your horizons in every possible way in other ways: go to those places where you have not visited before, meet people who have not previously been part of your circle of communication. Read literature of various genres, get to know the culture of other nations, and try to do this not only empirically, but also in practice - going to other powers.
Step 5
Write down everything for which you are ready to thank fate. Continue to record only positive events in your own life, any pleasant little thing that happens to you. Do things that bring you pleasure and joy. Have fun and laugh every day. If necessary, buy for this a calendar with jokes, discs with high-quality comedies, or at least view KVN records. Secretly do nice things to others, especially those close to you.
Step 6
Change anything about your appearance. For example, hairstyle or at least hair color. Completely update your wardrobe, purchasing only those things for it that will emphasize your external dignity. Buy at least a couple of bold or trendy pieces of clothing that you previously thought were too extravagant for yourself. The main condition is that they go to you. Also take care of your body's health. Make sports workouts part of your routine. Switch to a healthy diet, while not limiting yourself too much - include only delicious dishes in the menu.
Step 7
If your relationship with the other half is at an impasse, but feelings are alive, do not rush to part and look for a new love. The change of partner will bring changes only for a short time, and when the charm of the novelty passes, everything can turn out to be many times worse than with the current lover / beloved. Better get busy revitalizing your relationship. Go on dates as if you just met for the first time. Strive to discover new, hitherto unknown to you, facets of the soul of a loved one. Feel free to share your positive emotions and love. The return on your relationship will be in direct proportion to what you put into it.
