It so happens that due to one stupid situation, the trust and respect of others is completely lost. To get them back, you need to try very hard. To begin with, build an even relationship, make sure that your mistake is forgotten.
Instructions
Step 1
The biggest mistake that people who have lost the respect of others make is trying to justify themselves. The more you focus on what happened, the longer people will remember about it. Stop returning to that situation at every convenient and inconvenient occasion, then they will forget about it much faster. She is already the past, and you need to think about the future and the present.
Step 2
To build an even relationship with others, admit your mistake. Repent and say that you are aware of your guilt. Ask what you can do to fix the situation. Your courage and openness to cooperation will evoke a positive response in the hearts of people. You may not be forgiven yet, but they will definitely give you a chance for correction. And your friends will not stand aside, but will definitely help you, convincing everyone that you have changed.
Step 3
When normal relationships are restored, try to regain respect. Behave with dignity, do not hide your eyes, be confident in yourself. Yes, you made a mistake, but you also repented of it. This means you no longer need to make excuses and prove something to someone. To anyone who tries to belittle you or looks with condemnation, say honestly that you are to blame and are trying to fix the situation, but you are not going to curry favor. This behavior is worthy of respect, and adequate people will understand it.
Step 4
Be consistent in your actions, become more benevolent and the respect of others will definitely return. And try not to do things in the future for which you will be ashamed. Always think about where certain actions will lead. If you care about the opinion of others, always look at your actions from the outside. It is better to hesitate with a decision than to lose the respect of family and friends because of hasty actions.
