In order to meet someone, you do not need to have a special talent. But some people, when meeting the opposite sex, are shy and feel a barrier, which is very difficult to overcome. This interferes with an active life. In order for life to be full and interesting, you need to overcome your shyness when dating.
Instructions
Step 1
Analyze your demeanor. Do not feel sorry for yourself in any way. You need to understand that it's time to change your strategy.
Step 2
Spend more time talking with people you know and the opposite sex. For this, colleagues, classmates are suitable. Discuss various problems with them, there should not be taboo topics. Talk to them about your dating failures. This will be good training, as you will get used to communicating with people of the opposite sex, you will begin to understand their psychology.
Step 3
Gradually move on to communicating with less familiar people. Be prepared for the fact that the first minutes of acquaintance are always difficult. There may be pauses in conversation, awkwardness. But there is nothing wrong with that. Some inconvenience is felt not only by you, but also by your interlocutor. You know each other too little yet.
Step 4
Try to be independent. If you were denied an acquaintance, you do not need to be upset and panic right away. Excuse yourself politely and walk away without showing your frustration. Perhaps your interlocutor is in a bad mood today. And it's not about you at all.
Step 5
Give yourself "dating lessons." Set a task for yourself, to meet or just talk during the day with several strangers of the opposite sex. For tomorrow, set yourself a task to meet a very beautiful person of the opposite sex. And the day after tomorrow - to get acquainted with those who are in the company. It will be very difficult to complete your tasks at first. But imagine that this is all a game, or that you are a foreign agent on assignment. This will make your workouts more interesting. The fear of meeting each other will gradually pass.
Step 6
Ask your girlfriends and friends for help, ask them how to get to know each other better. They may give you helpful tips to help you overcome your timidity when meeting someone.
