For many of us, this question is often relevant, although how can you find what you have not lost. Everything is in place: head, hands, mind, beauty. But you have no confidence in the future, no interesting work, friends, or a loved one. It makes you feel lost in life and do not feel satisfied with it. You increasingly think that the years go by and go in vain. Don't hang your head - nothing is lost yet!
Instructions
Step 1
Think about what you like, what you want out of life. All people are different and each of them has their own idea of happiness. Decide what you like, what you would like to do: interesting work, helping people or homeless animals, traveling, swimming, jogging in the morning, trips out of town, cooking, ballroom or Latin dancing. Write down everything in a row, in the order in which it came to your head.
Step 2
On the second half of the sheet, think about and write down the reasons why you cannot fulfill yourself and fulfill each item on the first list. Write honestly. If you are just being lazy, then just mention “laziness” as the reason. Sincerely admit to yourself that failures and constant complaints in work are associated with a lack of knowledge and inability to conscientiously treat assignments, a lack of perseverance. If, for example, there is no money for travel, then also indicate this as a reason.
Step 3
Consider how you can fix and remove these obstacles. You will be surprised, but in fact there will be much less of them, since many of them are a direct consequence of others, and by removing one obstacle, you can simultaneously remove several more. So, for example, if you increase your efficiency and acquire new knowledge, you will get a new interesting job, which, accordingly, will help you become financially independent and afford the same travel, visiting spas and fitness rooms. Having become beautiful and slender, you can easily find a life partner suitable for you. You see, all you have to do is pull the thread, unwinding the tangle of your problems.
Step 4
Start small, you must understand that only you know what you need and that only you can find yourself. In fact, one has only to start - as we have already shown, all your metamorphoses are connected with each other, start changing yourself and your life will change, it will become what you yourself want to see it.
