When the period of courtship passes, and everyday life begins, the relationship of lovers sometimes loses its romantic component. Women especially lack warmth and affection, it seems to them that a man has lost interest in them. How to get maximum care and attention from the stronger sex?
Instructions
Step 1
Some cooling in steam is quite frequent and not at all catastrophic. You just need to go through this period. Therefore, do not rush to seek comfort in the arms of other men. Try to revitalize your relationship with someone you love.
Step 2
Formulate your claims in your mind. What exactly are you missing? Sometimes women understand the word “care” as an exceptionally high material security, sometimes - a desire to see a man nearby all the time, and not just on weekends.
Step 3
Having understood what exactly you are missing, think about why the man refuses you this. It is important to figure out if he has real reasons for estrangement, or is he just tired of the relationship. For example, the high workload at work completely excuses the fact that he does not even have time to kiss you at night, because he comes home in the morning.
Step 4
Don't expect the man to guess how desperate you want him to just hug you from your sad look. Take action! Show him how you can care. Have a romantic evening. The atmosphere of flirting is always an increased attention to the lady, he will not be able to remain indifferent.
Step 5
Show that you need it. Do not be afraid to be weak, despite the fact that today the image of a strong and independent woman literally does not leave the covers of glossy magazines. Admit that you are tired of washing the dishes in the evenings, could he take it upon himself? Such requests work much better than reproaches and resentments.
Step 6
Talk frankly. Ask what he lacks in your relationship. Perhaps his detachment is a reaction to your behavior, and you do not even know about it. Let him say whatever he thinks. Even if his words hurt you, try not to quarrel, sort things out calmly.
Step 7
Be beautiful and desirable! Yes, you are the most beautiful woman in the world, but you should remind your man of this more often. Is he used to seeing you in jeans and sweaters? Surprise him with a new look, complement your wardrobe with high heels and a stunning dress. Conquer him every day, and then his constant attention is provided to you.
