On the one hand, being a child at heart is not so bad. After all, children, like no one else, know how to enjoy everyday trifles and be sincere. On the other hand, children also have negative qualities inherent in their age: capriciousness, lack of independence, inability to think about the future. All this is quite understandable and appropriate at the age of 7, but when the "child" turns 20, it is time to grow out of such qualities.
Instructions
Step 1
If, instead of getting over trouble, you start whining and complaining to loved ones in the hope that they will pity you and solve the problem for you, you are behaving like a child. In a bad way. It would be much more efficient to take paper and pen and write down your problems and solutions there, and then follow the resulting list. If you cannot think of a way to solve the problem, ask your loved ones for help, they will be happy to offer you a solution. This will be an act of an adult.
Step 2
When a child is offended, he becomes angry and throws a tantrum. If, having reached the age of 20, you still have not learned to restrain your emotions and are able to publicly begin to sort things out, you should learn to control yourself. To do this, use a proven method: if someone hurt you badly, slowly count to ten in your mind before pouring out your anger on the offender.
Step 3
Children want to get everything at once, and the fact that parents cannot buy them the whole Children's World does not seem convincing to them to deny their needs. Often, young people retain this trait - they want to have all the attributes of a good life, while in most cases their salary does not allow this purchase that you desire (for example, let it be a car), find out its cost, plan what you can save to save money for your dream. Write down all the calculations on paper, and you will understand that the child's "want" in an adult can be pacified in this way.
Step 4
Children are bored with their daily routines. It is also not very interesting for adults to do this, but, nevertheless, an adult understands that it is impossible to live without regular washing, cleaning and cooking. Therefore, if you are determined to become an adult and independent person, you will have to accustom yourself to do household chores.
