The problems that appear in our life are previously unresolved situations. It is impossible to postpone the decision of any serious issues. If you don't want to decide on your own, life itself will create desperate situations from which it will be impossible to escape.
Instructions
Step 1
If you yourself do not take an active position in life, you will never have what you want. Almost every problem that looms over time with the sword of Damocles is not very difficult to resolve at an early stage. This applies to all spheres of life - financial, personal, family, and so on. Every morning there are hundreds of things that need to be done sequentially, and not put off until a certain moment. Otherwise, it is highly likely that the need to resolve them will arise at one moment. Such rush jobs undermine mental and physical strength. Dale Carnegie, in his book How to Stop Worrying and Start Living, gave very good advice: "Solve the most unpleasant questions in the morning."
Step 2
In an effort to avoid problems, some people take the position of the wise gudgeon. This position "my house is on the edge" works for the time being. Sooner or later, what is happening around you will take you into a whirlpool, and you will not even know how to cope with everything and what to take on. Just like a person who grew up in sterile conditions can die from a simple cold, so the one who hid behind the backs of others all his life will not be able to cope with elementary problems on his own.
Step 3
A large block of problems that baffle many and can even lead to the darkest thoughts are financial. To avoid creating money traps for yourself, always plan your expenses. Learn financial literacy: be sure to make investments, do not put all your savings in one bank or a package of securities. Before taking out a loan, think about whether you will be able to pay off a certain amount every month, even if you lose your job? Even with a stable income, look for alternative sources of income, including passive ones, that will not depend on your performance.
Step 4
Be truthful in your relationships with people. Sometimes it's better to say nothing than to lie. Do not go into a fight with your fists if you can resolve the conflict with words. Always be responsible for your actions and do not waste words. Know how to say no when you really need to. But if you see that your neighbor cannot solve the problem on his own, and you know that it is within your power, help him. Surely the experience gained will be useful to you, besides, you will gain an ally.
Step 5
Do not focus on the past or dream constantly. Hold fast to the ground, but keep your eyes on the future. You must understand that right now you are laying the foundations for your well-being. If you feel that the chosen professional path brings you not only good money, but also a lot of disappointment, you live in constant stress, because your occupation is sickening, - change your life now, because it will only get worse. And if you accept it, you will lose yourself.
