For some, love inspires and energizes. Others tend to meet only unhappy love. What are the reasons for unhappy love, and do we ourselves determine whether our love will be happy or unhappy?
Instructions
Step 1
Try to look at life globally. Why do you live? Why did you come to this world? What is the purpose of unhappy love in all this? This is called "looking for answers to existential questions" or to questions of existence. Often, the feeling of unhappy love is associated with the fact that we dwell on it. And you need to be able to look beyond the horizons of non-forming relationships.
Step 2
Understand why you need negative feelings. Sometimes, from childhood, we absorb the feeling that love should bring suffering. This happens when our parents were unhappy. Or if some sad love story made too much of an impression on us. If you are chronically attracted to unhappy love, then you should especially pay attention to this point. Try to think of other ways to achieve the goal for which you need suffering at this moment in your life.
Step 3
Take a break from your worries. How many wonderful examples there are in cinema and literature when unfortunate lovers left for the ends of the world to forget. And there they found new feelings or new strength to live. Try and you distract yourself from endless reflections on the unfortunate fate. This will help you find new lines of development.
Step 4
Do not overtighten. If it's obvious to you that the relationship has run its course, find a way to quickly dot the i's. There is no need to pull with a gap where it is inevitable. The sooner you leave the person with whom you cannot build a love relationship, the better. The less you will get emotional trauma and the faster you will discover new opportunities for love. Now happy.
