It is not uncommon to hear a woman complaining bitterly about an evil fate. And in his personal life he is constantly unlucky, and at work the problem is the problem. Nobody understands it, nobody needs it, nothing good, only troubles. You can, of course, make allowances for the emotionality of the weaker sex, but in fact, there are women who seem to attract troubles to themselves.
Instructions
Step 1
Understand that feeling sorry for yourself will not go away from your problems and troubles. “Each person is the blacksmith of his own happiness” - this is the rule you should be guided by in your daily life.
Step 2
Try to analyze your behavior as accurately, objectively and impartially as possible. Are you constantly unlucky in your personal life? But there must be a reason. The easiest way is to console yourself with a silly saying: "All men are bastards." But think better: maybe you yourself are to blame, maybe something scares men away, pushes them away from you?
Step 3
Take a look at yourself from the outside, seek advice from a well-known person whose opinion you trust. Better if it is a man. Ask frankly, without hiding anything, to answer the question: what habits, character traits, behavior does he not like? In no case do not be offended for the unpleasant truth, it is better to draw all the necessary conclusions for the future. Suggest to yourself: "My problems and troubles are nonsense compared to those experienced by truly unhappy people."
Step 4
Are you doing badly at work, constant conflicts with colleagues? And how can it be otherwise if you always sit with a "sour face", demonstrating with all your appearance: "Oh, how unhappy I am." Or, even worse, you love to complain endlessly, talk about your troubles. No wonder your coworkers find it painful to communicate with you.
Step 5
Change your behavior drastically. No more complaints. On the contrary, pretend that everything is fine with you and that you are happy with everything. Smile, even if your soul is "scratching". You will not even have time to come to your senses, as the attitude towards you will change for the better.
Step 6
Positive emotions are vital for you. Literally force yourself to shake yourself up, drive away the painful thoughts. Learn to see the good in the simplest, most mundane things that are at every turn. Improve your self-esteem. Find an interesting hobby, hobby, change your image. Then you will almost certainly meet a man who really likes you. And negative thoughts will disappear.
