Many wonderful and extraordinary things happen in our life, but for reasons that we ourselves sometimes do not understand, we cannot allow them to happen to ourselves. We block everything that is not to our taste, many of us already have an established rhythm of life, in which there is simply no place for anything new.
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Step 1
One of the reasons why we cannot accept everything new is our established life. Everything is so stable in our country that we cannot allow something new to shake this stability. It seems to us that everything new that can enter our life only destabilizes it. You need to understand that new is not necessarily bad. This can be useful, and just in order to once again color our gray everyday life.
Step 2
The second reason is being overly focused on our goals. Can you imagine how much you will miss if you pursue the same goal for one year? And if it's five years? The goals should be flexible and change according to new circumstances. New circumstances - this is information that is foolish to ignore, it may well bring greater efficiency to our actions in the implementation of our own goals.
Step 3
The third reason is our tendency to judge and evaluate everything. We look at everything that happens from the bell tower of our experience and do not want to understand that we have never had this new thing. It is necessary not to forget that the gaining of experience does not stop at any moment of our life and everything new that appears in our life is an invaluable experience that should not be missed.
