The World Wide Web is a great opportunity to communicate and meet the guys you like without hesitation and fear of being rejected. However, even to establish an online contact, an interesting first phrase is required, so the question arises: "How to start a conversation?"
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, decide what your relationship will be like, who you see the chosen young man as. The tactics of the conversation depend on it. The first communication involves a clear plan. There should be no mistakes. In the future, you must lead the guy to the fact that he himself took the initiative. First, think about how to present yourself, because on the network the guy will not see your amazing eyes and smile, manners and beauty, but he will see the style of communication.
Step 2
Investigate. No, you will not follow your chosen one, and it is not necessary to hire a detective. The internet has made life easier. Open his page in VKontakte, Odnoklassniki, My World - anywhere (every advanced person has an account in one of these networks). Learn everything from university to shopping. Photos will tell you how and where he spends his leisure time and holidays, whether the person is active in front of you. You will probably find something in common and similar to your interests. And this is already a small step towards success.
Step 3
Pay attention to your profiles. Most likely, the guy will ask for the address of your page on the social network. And the refusal in the form of the phrase "I am nowhere to be found" will only alert. Flip through albums and leave the best photos.
Step 4
Now everything is ready to start the correspondence. Choose his name from the contact list, remember that he likes to go to such and such a club, and type: “Hello! Can you please tell me which DJ is playing today? " or "Is there a special party at the club today?", and then intuition and his answer will tell you. The advantage of this beginning of a conversation is that the guy will not see obsession, banality. In fact, it will look as if you asked in real life: "Where is such and such street?"
Step 5
You exchanged the first phrases. Even by his answer, you will understand whether the person is in front of you, whether he is satisfied with the manner of presenting his thoughts. But still, do not make quick decisions, wait. A person is revealed in the process of communication. Answer his questions honestly, show interest, tell a couple of life stories, but no more. He himself should want to know about you and not only in ICQ. Throw him a couple of funny links, see the reaction. Very soon you will have an idea of the person on the other side of the monitor.
Step 6
Do not forget to use the information about him for your own purposes. For example, say: “Friends talked about such and such a book, they say it is interesting. Do not read? He will feel “on horseback”. You, in turn, ask questions, you can jokingly suggest some kind of dispute.
Step 7
So, the conversation took place, but it cannot go on forever. Try to say goodbye first so you don't seem intrusive. Thank him for his help (he answered your first party question) and hint that it would be great to have another chat. He should take the initiative to exchange phone numbers with you and meet in person.
