Early one morning you woke up and realized that you want to change your life. Everything that you do, with whom you communicate, how you live, does not suit you at all, you want to live a completely different interesting and rich life. But changing the established way of life is not so easy, because any changes cause fear and confusion in front of the unknown. There is nothing wrong with this, but in order to overcome the inner fears that prevent change, you will have to show serious willpower, but the result is worth it. After all, this is the only way you can change your life.
It is necessary
Willpower, self-confidence, patience and desire
Instructions
Step 1
If you want to dramatically change your life, start doing what you have never done before. Change your daily routine, do not play sports, do it, have wanted to walk around the city for a long time, take a walk. Stop putting off what you have in mind. If you don't like classical music, go to the Philharmonic or watch the Culture channel. Fill your life with new impressions, and maybe what you didn't like will become your new hobby or, on the contrary, will tell you that not everything is so bad in your life, you just got a little bored.
Step 2
In general, in order for changes to bring positive changes, first understand what exactly you want to change in life. To do this, set aside a few hours when no one bothers you to be alone with yourself. It can be a walk with your beloved dog or a pleasant pastime in nature, after all, at home you can always find an opportunity to hide from everyone. Left alone, allow yourself to figure out what is happening inside you. Try to understand what specifically does not suit you in life, what you want to get rid of. Listen to the thoughts that arise in your head.
Step 3
Prioritize what you need to change on a piece of paper. In front of each item, write what you need for this and whether you have it. If you want to start your own business, draw up a business plan, decide on the amount of initial capital and think about where you can get it. Look for ways to promote yourself without the required amount. If you are engaged in knitting and would like to sell your products, then you can use to start selling your products through social networks and online stores. As soon as the required amount is collected, you can open your own store. In other words, engage in drawing up a plan for how you can fulfill your desire, no matter how incredible it may be.
Step 4
Starting today, start saving at least 5% of the earned money not for a "rainy day", but rather for development. Having money will give you the confidence to make any decisions that may affect not only you, but those around you as well. And in any case, you will cease to depend on others.
Step 5
If you are not working, go looking for a job. An adult is obliged to provide for himself. Do not strive to immediately get a high-paying job, without experience this is impossible. But there are always professions that will give you the opportunity to rise up the career ladder. Choose an interesting field of activity for yourself and who knows, maybe it is in it that you will become real professionals. Attending interviews will be a real challenge for you and will bring a wide variety of emotions into your life.
Step 6
Sign up for a foreign language course. Knowledge of English, Chinese or German will not only increase your chances of making a career, but will also help improve and preserve your memory for years to come. Learn programming, the art of photography, start writing books or drawing, look for yourself. The main thing is to do something that you have never thought about before. Or maybe, on the contrary, they dreamed for a long time, but could not.
Step 7
And if you really want to find love, start going to a place where there are always a lot of members of the opposite sex. Think about what kind of person you want to see next to you and go where he definitely happens. Increase your chances, the more people around you, the sooner you will meet your love.
Step 8
So that changes in life do not bring problems, it is best, having decided what you specifically want to change, immediately find ways to deal with possible difficulties. If you decide to find another job, take care of the availability of funds for the period of looking for a new job, especially if you have loans. If you are going to move to another city, leave your new phone number to loved ones. And once in a new place, be careful, do not trust strangers and do not fall into the clutches of scammers, especially when renting an apartment.
