You can be absolutely alone, even if you are in a crowd of people or surrounded by family and friends. But loneliness can be perceived differently by different people. It limits some, drives them into sadness, gives discomfort, while it stops others in the frantic rhythm of a big city and allows them to realize themselves as a whole person, to remember their present, their goals, dreams and desires.
Instructions
Step 1
Many great people - writers, artists, scientists - treasured loneliness as the most important resource of their creative process and development. Acceptance of his loneliness makes a person stop being passive, forcing him to become decisive, to take responsibility for his life on himself, freedom of creativity comes. Loneliness often arises so that you have a desire for development and for changing yourself for the better.
Step 2
In the process of loneliness, there is an understanding of their dependence, especially subordination from relatives and friends. It is important to learn how to communicate with yourself, to hear and listen to your inner voice. Inability and unwillingness to listen to oneself, boredom from communicating with oneself, often indicates a loss of individuality. And if I am bored with myself, and I am an unwanted interlocutor for myself, will it be interesting to others with me?
Step 3
The one who learns to feel loneliness as a gift of fate and friends and partner will choose not because he alone is bored, lonely and badly, but because he really will love his chosen one so that he wants to let him into his inner world. After all, how often, choosing a pair for ourselves, just not to be alone, we are mistaken. And by learning to be alone with our thoughts and feelings, we are prepared to be completely close to someone. And then the delight of closeness, and not the fear of loneliness, keep us close.
Step 4
It is important to feel loneliness not as a punishment, but as personal freedom and sincerely enjoy your independence. Live life to the fullest, enjoy every moment, see new opportunities in front of you, strive to know yourself and the world around you.
