Many people want to attract the attention of others, and some cannot even live without it. Society has a negative attitude to this fact. This happens because some are trying to impose in a rude manner. At the same time, in show business, such a factor is forgivable, all means are good for advertising. A small screaming child is also indifferent to those around him. You will need other methods to get attention without causing irritation.
Instructions
Step 1
Put yourself in the shoes of the person or group of people whose attention you want to get. If these people value responsibility, show your diligence and honesty. If you have a sense of humor in front of you, tell funny stories and anecdotes. You can laugh at yourself, it is very "captivating" interlocutors. However, don't try to play in public. If you start being hypocritical, people will figure it out quickly. Be yourself and develop the necessary qualities.
Step 2
Be original. This can be a style of clothing, hobbies, behavior. All this attracts people. However, do not strive for drastic changes, otherwise you risk scaring people off with your shocking image. If you don't know where to start, learn to do what others cannot.
Step 3
A colorful suit will not be appropriate at work, but you can add bright accessories to a business look. It would also be appropriate to take the initiative. Of course, you do not need to do this in everything, otherwise the office work will go to you. Show yourself to be a reliable, committed employee who loves his job and knows his worth.
Step 4
Show discernment. If you can find an approach to a person, then automatically arrange him to you. However, do it discreetly and do not give advice if the person just wanted to be listened to.
Step 5
Do not create an image of a bad person for yourself, it repels, does not attract people.
Step 6
Don't assume that beautiful people automatically attract attention. If there is beauty, but there is no charm, then you will not be in the spotlight for a long time. It is to charming people that mistakes and mistakes are forgiven. Therefore, develop your charm and sense of humor, and do not waste all your time and money on expensive clothes and beauty salons.
Step 7
Be humble. Perhaps you have accomplished a lot and want to boast about your success. This can and should be done. However, do not behave arrogantly, especially towards those who have achieved less. Otherwise, you will not be respected, but they will begin to hate and envy you.
Step 8
Talk more about others, give genuine compliments, and don't flatter. In this case, people will reciprocate you and return compliments.
