A person needs to find himself in life, to find a hobby that will bring him joy and material income every day.
First you need to look into yourself and find the answer to the question - "What do I really want to do?" You need to find one area of your activity, which gives pleasure with its process and result, and start developing it. Even if it seems difficult to do, even if the age is not the same or there is no education, it's never too late.
It's never too late to find the literature you need, attend trainings or go to study. And the cause of all troubles is the same - lack of attention to oneself, one's desires and the fear that nothing will work out. You will stay at the starting point until you focus on one direction.
Someone is able to gather their thoughts and spirit faster, some take more time, but we must admit that this is an integral part of the process, and there is no getting away from it. The best way to smooth out the angles of internal mental confrontations is to devote all of yourself to your favorite activity, to become a truly expert in your field. Feel yourself at ease.
Every day you will have to face public opinion, with some contradictions, defend your point of view, your opinion. But nothing should darken the path to improving yourself in your business. When the process will completely capture the entire consciousness, the external noise will no longer seem so intrusive. And over time, others will begin to listen to your opinion as an expert in their field.
And then there will be wings behind your back and a sense of the significance of yourself. The desire will come to bring even greater benefit to others in return for their gratitude.