Since childhood, we have been instilled in the laws of morality, one of which read: "Lying is bad." But is it really so?
Self-doubt doesn't come out of nowhere. It is closely connected with the people around us, with their opinions and habits. This is why successful people become even more successful, while others feel depressed and guilty. Therefore, it is so important to keep track of who we surround ourselves with.
It just so happened that a person unconsciously identifies himself with those around him. It is very easy to start falling lower and lower when you find yourself in bad company. With this development of events, a person quickly loses the will to live, gives up and stops fighting for something important.
When you cannot find anything that could help you, in reality, the most commonplace lies come to the rescue.
If you repeat every morning: “I am the most charming and attractive,” - sooner or later you will believe in it and really will become like that. Of course, you can't do with repetitions alone, it is also important to reinforce words with actions: communicate with people, go somewhere, in general, behave more friendly. But the result will not be long in coming, and very soon, thanks to such simple actions, you will turn into a charismatic pleasant person.
If your environment has instilled a negative lie in you, there is nothing stopping you from using the positive equivalent. Patience and the effort to nurture the seeds of self-confidence will pay off very soon, and you will be much happier and more successful.
