When a crisis of maturity comes, what becomes the reason and how a woman can survive this difficult age period.
There is empty nest syndrome. The crisis of maturity is associated with it. A woman is always attached to her children. She loves them very much. Any woman feels personally responsible for that. To keep the family together. This is why, when the children leave, she starts to get very worried. A feeling of emptiness is bound to arise. The meaning of life is completely lost. The family is changing. This necessarily affects the relationship of the spouses.
A man and a woman have very difficult times. That is why it is so important for them to support each other and try to understand. Now there are no longer any hindrances to revive fading or simply dormant feelings. You need to find mature love. But this requires tremendous effort and intelligence.
Features of the crisis
Crazy passion is already a thing of the past. Now it is so important to surround your husband with incredible love and care.
You need to communicate, remember, dream and be sure to make plans for the future. We must not forget that it is by communicating that mature spouses become closer. Their love is reborn. An incredible closeness is created spiritually.
A woman should become a real psychotherapist for her husband. You will experience age-specific problems. But they will help you understand your life partner.
You should definitely take care of your appearance and take good care of yourself. In order for a family to maintain sexual relations, a woman must be incredibly attractive. And it's not just about looks, although that's important. Finding a positive in yourself and radiating energy, this is what will help not to fade away passion in your intimate life. This is easier said than done, of course. A woman needs to find something from which her "eyes are on fire." This can be anything from handicrafts to gardening. The main thing is to like it.
It is very difficult for those women to overcome the crisis of adulthood who saw the meaning of their life only in children. When they leave, loneliness sets in. Complicates his menopause. It is important to understand that an incredibly interesting period is coming right now.
Now the woman is relieved of a number of responsibilities. She has the opportunity to take care of herself, her own health, and also start a completely new relationship. A mother's love for children must necessarily be reborn into a friendly feeling based on trust and love.
You should not see the meaning of your whole future life only in children. Your social mission has been accomplished. You were able to raise, raise children and release them into the adult world. Now they need to start an independent life.
Think about your life. Analyze what you have achieved. Consider what has been lost. Be sure to remember your dreams, as well as those that never came true. Now is the time for the realization of your unfulfilled dreams and plans.
Do not forget that at this time a crisis in family relations begins. At 45-50 years old, many spouses get divorced. The relationship between a man and a woman often simply cannot stand the test of time. Women deal with their experiences and problems. But at the same time, they do not see that their husbands are striving with all their might to break free of the marital bondage.
They cheat, which often leads to divorce. All this necessarily affects the mental and physical health of women. The couple is stumped. The past loses its value, the present is meaningless, and it is simply impossible to think about the future.
Women are dying from a psychological point of view. But they will be able to withstand and survive everything. Time is the best helper. You need to learn to cope with stress. This is the only way to be reborn and live on. The woman resembles the legendary Phoenix bird. She is reborn from the ashes of the past to a new life.
