Some people suffer from too low self-esteem. They are not confident in themselves, consider themselves useless and unnecessary. Such feelings interfere with normal life, so you need to fight them.
One of the basic needs of a person's spiritual development is his awareness of his own sense of self-worth. It turns out that a person's need to feel his need and importance is on a level higher than even his need for sleep or food. The feeling of one's own importance in its strength sometimes exceeds the instinct of self-preservation, and then a person is ready to go to any lengths to prove to himself that he is not useless.
What is a sense of self-worth?
In fact, a person tries to gain a sense of his own significance throughout almost his entire conscious life. To begin with, he enters a prestigious university, gets a high-paying job and tries to actively participate in the affairs of the company. All this happens for one single reason - a person tries to feel needed and important. He tries to compare himself with other people and be a cut above. The more he succeeds, the more useful things he accomplishes, the higher his significance will be.
How people increase their value
Provided that a person does not have his own and interesting business, he tries to increase his sense of self-worth in any way possible for this. Such a person does not stop searching and changing his sexual partners, he tries to teach and teach everyone around him, besides, he tries to regularly sort out relations with relatives, constant family quarrels and scandals, all this is a pathological compensation for the lack of a person's self-worth.
Such options for self-expression are based solely on the destructive method, but this does not allow you to properly express your personality. At the same time, a person thinks that, having joined someone else's, giving himself completely to the cultural, financial and material subordination of leaders or any other people, he gets that long-awaited calmness and self-confidence, while having the opportunity to express himself.
However, such feelings are wrong. Self-development is important to increase your sense of self-worth.
It must be remembered that working for not your own idea, not in your own system and completely for strangers, there is no opportunity to prove yourself and become a truly strong person. And the feeling of confidence obtained in this case is imaginary.
An excellent option is to open a new business, which will be in demand, or to engage in charity work. People will begin to respect and appreciate you, then you yourself will understand how important you are to others.
If your dream is to increase your profile, do something that really benefits society.
