Noisy fun with an abundance of booze is a national treasure of Russia. The whole world knows that the Russian people are cheerful, good-natured and drinking. In such conditions, a person who has given up alcohol is not always comfortable. The hardest thing is for someone who finds himself in front of a whole company inviting him to support the holiday.
Instructions
Step 1
Define your circle of friends. The fact is that with some people it is pleasant and fun only if there is alcohol in the blood, and with others - over a cup of tea or with ice cream in hand. If every time you refuse to drink, resentment and persuasion begin, you should think about the attitude of these people towards you. The mutual respect of comrades does not tolerate absurd grievances.
Step 2
Learn to be hard. Once you decide not to drink, follow it irrevocably. A firm “I don’t want to” will work better than any excuse. Refusing the first glass, you should not settle for the second - this way you will only show your indecision. If your “I don’t want” is puzzling and phrases like “you don’t respect me” - well, it means that the company is at least dependent on alcohol and does not respect you and your decision.
Step 3
There are times when, according to Russian standards, you just need to drink - weddings, childbirth and other situations. Share the joy of newlyweds or happy parents by pouring yourself a glass of mineral water. Do not change it during the evening and try to keep it full - this way you will not be constantly pouring alcohol and pestering you with questions about not wanting to drink.
Step 4
Don't be rude. When offering a drink, you should not rudely refuse. If a person suggested that you share the table with him and his joy (let's hope that people only drink from strong happiness), you should not class him on the enemy side. A humorous tone will always help you get out of the situation with dignity. Phrases like “I’ve already drunk mine” or “I will not drink, but I will not refuse to eat” will show you the best side.
Step 5
In any situation, for the sake of your health and sobriety of mind, you can lie a little. When you hear an offer to drink, refuse, referring to driving a car, taking medication, an important meeting early in the morning. People who respect you will never allow themselves to continue persuasion after learning about such situations.
